"When you are down, don't let anyone know; don't let them look down at you. Otherwise, be strong, lift your head up high, and give your best smile."

-Me

Aji Anom

Do you know this place?

Today, I finished class about 1pm. Definately, it is the perfect time to go lunch!
My friends and I decided to lunch outside campus. It was a spontaneous idea. I said, "Guys, I'm starving. Let's go for lunch!" Other asked, "where??" I was about to suggest KBL (the nearest canteen from SBM building, beside I love their gado-gado and soup uwwhh :9), but the other one said, "Let's eat in a far yet delicious place.." Which means it gotta be outside campus. They were still confuse when I suggested Warung Aji Anom.Well.. It isn't a quite well-known place. But I love the food!

Warung Aji Anom is an Indonesian flavoured restorant located at Haji Hasan Street (not far from Rabbani Boutique, Dipati Ukur). The menus aren't so variant, only Bebek Betutu, Ayam Betutu, and Iga Bakar. But the best selling one is obviously Bebek Betutu- Bebek Betutu is originally a Balinese cuisine. They also have kale soup as their side dish. 

Finally, we went there and in was raining. We went by motorcycle and guess what, my Statistics Textbook fell down! It is now dirty and wet by the pouring rain. I dried it by hair dryer at home -__-. And with some extra effort, we arrived there at last hffttt...

Tigor and Chris ordered grilled duck, Lugas ordered fried duck, and I ordered steamed duck. (Believe me, mine is the most delicious yet tempting one :9 :3). A package of Bebek Betutu + rice + drink is Rp24000,00. Not expensive, right.. Moveover, the taste is soo delicious with extra sambal matah which means sambal mentah in Balinese (kinda condiment with chopped red onion and cayenne pepper + sweet soy sauce). It feels tasty and spicy and hot and delicious, fit so well with the weather (rainning). I also got an extra kale soup uwwhh I love that dish :') 

As a 'new commers' in Bandung, we can rarely find such a place with delicious Bebek Betutu and good price. So, don't wait to try. This place is so recommended ;)

Here are the photos !

Bebek Betutu Kukus + Sup Kangkung + Sambal Matah + Tahu

Chris and I w/ a glass of extract alang-alang 

Lugas feat. Tigor; big smile after feeling full :p

Hugs & Kisses,

Delicia

#1 TIPS MOVE ON

Back with me on 107.7 FM Radio Kampus ITB, Play Your Best Music !

That's the station id which I have to say everytime I go on air ;)

As its title, this post is about my first broadcast materials which tells you some tips for moving on from your ex. I chose this topic because lately I feel like there are so many people breaking up with their boyfriend/girlfriend. I don't like watching them desperate and have a look of my-world-is-falling-down. So, I do hope that these tips might help you guys to move on from your used-to-be-the-special-one and continue your life :)

Here are the tips:

1. Menerima bahwa hubungan sudah berakhir

Sudah saatnya kalian face the truth kalau hubungan kalian itu sudah berakhir. Ya, jodoh memang urusan Tuhan, dan kemungkinan kamu balikan sama mantan itu mungkin terjadi. Tetapi, jangan menghabiskan waktumu berkhayal tentang ide itu! Kamu harus menerima kenyataan bahwa hubungan sudah berakhir. Jadi, daripada membuat kecewa diri sendiri, lebih baik let it go...

    2. Ekspresikan kesedihan secara produktif

Biasanya setelah putus, kita diliputi oleh emosi yang berlebihan. Bahkan banyak orang yang melampiskan meosinya tersebut dengan negatif seperti membuat posting yang 'kurang menyenangkan' di jejaring sosial, membalas dendam pada mantan ataupun berusaha membuatnya cemburu, dsb. Sebaliknya lebih baik energi negatif yang berlebihan itu disalurkan pada kegiatan yang positif seperti menulis puisi, bermain musik, berolahraga, dll.

    3. Hindari makan dan minum berlebihan

Sindrom ini seringkali terjadi saat kita sedang berada dalam keadaan stress atau tertekan, yaitu melampiaskannya ke makanan. Untuk sesaat kelihatannya dapat mengurangi rasa sedih, tapi pelampiasan dengan cara tersebut dapat berdampak buruk kedapannya. FYI, terlalu sering makan dan melebihi porsi normal dapat membuat pencernaan cepat rusak karena dipaksa bekerja melebihi beban yang seharusnya.

    4. Manjakan diri

Salah satu cara untuk melupakan si dia adalah dengan menenangkan pikiran. Hal ini dapat dilakukan dengan melakukan hal-hal yang sifatnya memberikan relaksasi pada tubuh dan pikiran, seperti pergi ke salon, jalan-jalan, dll. Give your heart a break.

     5. Ngobrol dengan keluarga atau teman

Tanpa disadari selama menjalani hubungan seringkali kita lupa membagi waktu dengan keluarga dan teman. Di saat vacuum inilah merupakan momen yang tepat untuk kita kembali menjalin hubungan dengan keluarga dan teman. Betapa berharganya perhatian dan support mereka untuk membantu Anda melupakan si dia.

    6. Alihkan pikiran

Di waktu senggang seringkali tanpa sengaja kita kembali memikirkan si dia, sehingga sulit rasanya untuk move on. Lakukanlah kegiatan lain untuk mengalihkan pikiran Anda. Anda bisa mulai menyibukkan diri dengan hal-hal yang Anda sukai, seperti belajar bermain musik, bergabung ke suatu komunitas / organisasi, dll.

    7. Dekatkan diri dengan Tuhan

Pasca-putus, banyak orang beralih ke hal negatif seperti pergi ke clubbing, merokok berlebihan, atau pun mulai banyak 'minum'. Hal-hal tersebut merupakan pelampiasan yang salah. Seharusnya hal pertama yang Anda cari di saat seperti itu ialah Tuhan. Bukan berarti menjadi religius, tetapi dengan mendekatkan diri dengan Tuhan dapat memberikan kedamaian yang tidak dapat Anda temukan di tempat lain.

    8. Hilangkan perasaan bersalah

Seringkali terbersit pikiran seperti "Andai saja dulu saya lebih perhatian, dia pasti tidak akan selingkuh.." atau "Seharusnya dulu saya bisa jadi lebih sabar dan dewasa sehingga bisa mengerti keadaannya.." Stop merasa bersalah! dan stop mengingat masa lalu! Sekali lagi, nasi telah menjadi bubur. Seharusnya Anda menyadari hal tersebut sebelum hubungan Anda berakhir dan sudah tidak ada gunanya Anda memikirkan hal itu sekarang karena hal itu tidak akan mengubah apapun.

    9. Cari pengganti

Carilah orang baru untuk memulai sebuah hubungan. Hubungan yang sehat adalah saat Anda siap. Hindari hubungan yang bersifat 'pelampiasan' atau hanya bermotif balas dendam pada mantan. Anda mungkin masih marah atas berakhirnya hubungan yang sebelumnya, tapi jangan menjadi tawar hati dan cobalah untuk membuka diri untuk kemungkinan baru. Namun sekali lagi, lakukanlah ketika Anda sudah siap. Jangan terlalu berlarut-larut dalam kesedihan.

Well, those are the tips I got. Hopefully, they can open your mind and help you to move on. Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea ;;)

Hugs & Kisses,

Delicia

Broadcast Premiere

HI!

Owhh, I'm so excited tonight! Guess why?
Because this evening is my first broadcasting on the radio. Yeeaayyyy :D

A brief description about this radio..
This is a campus radio named Radio Kampus ITB. Even tough this is a campus radio, but we have a lot of listeners included listeners from outter Bandung. We are media partner for so many events, such as events held by University of Indonesia, Jakarta or Bandung events, and also ITB's events. Beside events, we are also cooperate with certain restaurant like Dapur Iga. So, this is such a pretty big scale radio with loyal listeners.

In doing broadcasting, I am not alone. We work on a team consist of producer, music director, technician, and announcer (that's me). At first, we felt so clumsy with the equipment and software, even we've learnt about it before. It took a quite long time to prepare the playlist and setting, etc. I should be on air at 7pm, but with this whole first-time-things for all the crews finally I started announcing at 7.30pm. FYI, 30 minutes is so worthy on the broadcasting world. 

It was a bit rough in the beginning. There were mistakes here and there. Eventually, we found our rythm and synergize with each other. Surely, it is needed some time to adapt and fortunately we handle it in a good way :) Owh, I feel so grateful to be a part of the team. Thank you so soo much guys *smooch :* :*

p.s: You can hear the broadcast every Monday and Saturday on 7pm-9pm by streaming on 107.7FM; www.radiokampusitb.com; via NUX Radio for mobile phone. You can also contact us via twitter on @radiokampusITB


Hugs & Kisses,

Delicia

Good Morning

"When you rise in the morning, give thanks for the light, for your life, for your strength. Give thanks for the food and for the joy of living. If you see no reason to give thanks, the fault lies in yourself."

-Tecumseh