My Passion

My Passion

6 juil. 2013

I Don't Care, I Love It

The title of this article perhaps sounds familiar to you. Actually, it is taken from the song 'I Love It' - Icona Pop. Somehow this song randomly poped up in my head and I am pretty agree with the quote.

People tend to be worry too much with what other people say -this occurs particularly with women.- Listening to other people's opinions may show that you are an open-minded individual. They may also help you and give better suggestions. However, what people say is only a thing to be considered. Well, again it depends on who gives the advice or whose opinion it is.

In some cases, asking opinion to an expert or a teacher or your parents might help you to solve your problems. In contras, there are several kinds of opinions or comments that don't even need to be considered. The things like gossips as well as gabfests that spread right behind you are definitely something to be ignored. Those things might come from the haters or the curious people that want to interfere your life. It is obvious that those people don't event know the truth of the events (things) they're talking about.

You have to be careful because the negativity of their talk could potentially drag you down. There is a saying that state "People who want to bring you down are already below you." Therefore, do not be provoked by what other people say about you. Clearly, you are the one who live your life. Every single decision that you make, whether you're listening to them or not, will sooner or later affect your life. It is up to you either to listen to the right(good) advices or to just follow what people say, but remember that you are the one who takes charge of your life.

All in all, be wise to decide every decision in your life. 


Hugs & kisses,



Delicia 

3 juil. 2013

film quote

"I don't wanna make history, I wanna make a difference."
-President Sawyer; White House Down

2 juil. 2013

quote

"Fitness is like marriage. You can't cheat on it and expect it to work."
-Bonnie Pfiester

30 juin 2013

"I Love You"

Male: "To be honest, I've loved you from the first time we met."
Female: "hmm.. Well, I love you, too dude."
*after two weeks dating*

"I love you" in words do not mean a thing without action. To love someone is definitely not something simple to do. Love is not as superficial as merely what you see a.k.a the appearance. I believe, love requires much more than. Somewhile people are mistaken to differentiate between love or lust/passion. Attracted by the pretty face, is it love or just a momentarily lust? 

It is true that love comes naturally. However, to fall in love is a long-way process. In my opinion, there is no such a 'love at the first sight'. The first sight might be the beginning of love, but it's not yet what so called 'love'. Love is something genuine&pure and it does not happen in an instant time. When you are wholeheartedly devoted to someone, you know that you are in love. *I hope I am not too naive to say this*

Before you are able to love someone, you have to love yourself first. For if you do not know how to love and respect yourself, how would you love someone in the right way? Love synergizes two people in one frequency. To love someone is a joy, to be loved by someone is a blessing, but to not be loved in return might be heartbreaking. Apparently, life is not always as beautiful as your dreams.

Most of the people say that your heart and your mind do not always be on the same track especially when you are in love. Here, I'm not trying to discuss those chemical reactions and the hormonal things which occurred when you are in love. In other hand, I sincerely want to advice you to bring your brain with you when you're in love. Remember, regret always comes late.

Finally, love knows no boundary, but not with us. To love someone and to be loved in return do not always mean that you guys belong together. Because to be in a certain relationship takes more than just love and commitment. Are you ready for that? Does he/she deserve you? Are you ready to be hurt? 



Kiss & hug,



Delicia

27 juin 2013

Emotion

Emotions are intense feelings that are directed to someone or something.The word 'emotion' originally taken from a French word émotion from the word émouvoir which means 'to affect'.

Components of emotion. There are several components of emotion, they are:

  • Cognitive appraisal : provides an evaluation of objects and events
  • Bodily symptoms : the physicological component of emotional experience
  • Action tendencies : a motivational component of the preparation and direction of motor responses
  • Expression : facial and vocal expression always almost accompanies an emotional state to communicate reaction and intention of actions
  • Feelings : the subjective experience of emotional state once it has occured
Classification : Basic Emotions
  1. Paul Ekman has supported the view that emotions are measurable, discrete, and physicologically distinct. Based on his research, he categorised 6 basic emotions which are anger, disgust, fear, hapiness, sadness, and surprise
  2. Robert Pultchik agreed with Ekman's biologically driven perspective but developed the "wheel of emotions"

External Factors. Some factors also affect the emotional state of people:
  1. Weather
  2. Stress level
  3. Social activity
  4. Sleep
  5. Exercise
  6. Age
  7. Gender

Sincerely,



Delicia

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